職場5件小事，同事愛上你
Are you nice to your co-workers? Before you answer, take a moment to think about it. How often do you ask them personal questions before jumping into a request? When was the last time you spoke to the person sitting next to you about anything besides work?
你在同事之間有沒有親和力呢?在你回答之前，細(xì)想一下，在提出工作要求之前，你會(huì)與他們寒暄個(gè)人生活嗎?上一次與坐在你旁邊的人談?wù)摮ぷ饕酝獾氖虑榈臅r(shí)間是什么時(shí)候?
After reading this New York Times article about how bosses don't have the time to be nice to their employees at work, it got me thinking — maybe, I'm not as nice as I think I am. And by not taking the extra effort to be kind to my co-workers, I could be contributing to a negative atmosphere.
讀了《紐約時(shí)報(bào)》上一篇關(guān)于老板在工作中沒時(shí)間體恤員工的文章后，讓我聯(lián)想到——也許，我并沒有我想象中那么有親和力。在沒有努力嘗試對我的同事溫柔以待的情況下，我很可能還帶去了負(fù)能量。
According to the article, “Rudeness and bad behavior have all grown over the last decades, particularly at work...insensitive interactions have a way of whittling away at people's health, performance and souls.” I know I'm definitely guilty of being so caught up in my work that I sometimes barely acknowledge the conversation someone is trying to have with me — instead, I just nod along, thinking about my to-do list.
據(jù)文章所說，“在過去十年中，粗魯無禮的行為一直在泛濫，特別是在工作當(dāng)中...無感的交流會(huì)給人們的健康，表現(xiàn)，甚至靈魂帶來不良影響。” 想起我太過投入于工作，忽略一直與我交談的朋友——我只是一直點(diǎn)頭敷衍，滿腦袋還充斥這我的`任務(wù)清單——心中充滿無限愧疚。
But that's ridiculous. Because being happy at work can be just as important as your salary. And the friendlier you are with the people you see every day, the happier you'll be.
這樣做簡直很可笑。因?yàn)橐粋�(gè)開心的工作環(huán)境和你的薪資是一樣重要的。你對每天遇見的人越友好，你自己也就越開心。
With that in mind, here are five fast and easy ways to be nicer at work — it's easier than you think.
鑒于此，這里有五個(gè)快速簡單的方法能夠讓你在工作中變得更有親和力——比你想象中的簡單。
1. Share a funny link
1.分享有趣的鏈接
When you come across something online that makes you laugh, you never question sending it over to a friend. So, the next time you come across an article that makes you giggle, send it to a co-worker who you think will appreciate it. Found a perfectly hilarious GIF that sums up the office? Use your company's internal chat system (if appropriate) to share it with the group.
當(dāng)你在網(wǎng)上看到一些讓你捧腹大笑的東西，毫不猶豫地轉(zhuǎn)發(fā)給你的朋友。所以，下次遇到讓你發(fā)笑的文章，就發(fā)給那些你認(rèn)為會(huì)喜歡的同事吧。找一張十分搞笑的圖片與辦公室所有人一起分享，你可以使用公司內(nèi)網(wǎng)聊天系統(tǒng)(如果合適的話)與小組分享。
2. Ask someone how their night was
2. 詢問小伙伴晚上過得如何
Taking the time to start a conversation about someone's personal life is a simple way to be nice. And no, you don't have to go too in-depth and start a 30-minute conversation. But starting out with, “How did the event go last night?” or “Did you enjoy having your family in town this weekend?” is an easy way to show someone you care (and that you were listening yesterday).
花時(shí)間和小伙伴談?wù)勊麄兊膫�(gè)人生活是提升親和力最簡單的辦法。不過，你沒有必要談的太過深入，或者花30分鐘來談。你可以這樣來開頭“昨晚過得如何?”或者“這周和家人去鎮(zhèn)上玩得怎么樣?” 這種開頭是展現(xiàn)你關(guān)心別人的最簡單的方式(昨天你所聽的)。
3. Invite someone to grab lunch with you
3. 邀請小伙伴一起吃午飯
I know, I know — you don't have time to sit down and eat lunch outside the office. But, let's face it, we all need a break from work and we all must grab lunch at some point. As long as you're going outside to get something, you might as well ask someone if he or she would like to join. Even if the person doesn't have time to go to lunch the day you ask, you'll still make him or her feel special by throwing the invite out there.
我明白，我了解——你沒時(shí)間離開辦公室，坐在別處享用午飯。但是，面對事實(shí)吧，我們都需要擺脫工作來休息，我們都必需吃午飯。只要你想要出去吃點(diǎn)什么，不妨邀請?jiān)敢馀c你一起的小伙伴。即使別人沒有時(shí)間和你一起吃午飯，你的邀請也給他/她帶來了特別的感受。
4. Pick up an extra coffee
4. 多要一杯咖啡
Very rarely do you come across co-workers who refuse a caffeine fix. Whether it's on your way into the office in the morning or during a quick work break, pick up an extra coffee (or tea, or whatever else your office likes) for someone. Not only will this brighten the person's day, but if he or she pays it forward, it'll start a chain of positivity in the office.
你很少會(huì)碰到拒絕咖啡的同事。不論是早晨的上班路上，亦或是中途短暫的休息，為小伙伴要一份咖啡(茶，或者你的同事所喜歡食物)。這不僅能讓別人度過愉悅的一天，而且他/她如果能將這份愛傳遞下去，那么這會(huì)在辦公室里形成一條正能量的鏈條。
5. Give someone a compliment
5. 夸獎(jiǎng)別人
One of the biggest complaints people have about their jobs is that they feel underappreciated. We've all been there, and we all know it's not a fun place to be — so challenge yourself to pay compliments to your co-workers regularly. Maybe someone did a great job on the latest project proposal, or maybe a co-worker landed an incredible sale. All you have to do is shoot over a quick email that says, “Hey! Just wanted to let you know that your pitch was really creative, and I'm excited to see how the company moves forward with it.” (If you need help coming up with a compliment, check out how to show thanks in any professional situation.)
人們對工作最大的抱怨就是覺得不被賞識(shí)。我們都處在這個(gè)境地，我們都知道這并是不一個(gè)有趣之地——所以嘗試著時(shí)不時(shí)夸獎(jiǎng)你的同事。也許別人在近期的項(xiàng)目建議上表現(xiàn)極好，或者一個(gè)同事創(chuàng)造了驚人的業(yè)績。你要做的就是迅速發(fā)一封郵件告訴他/她：“嗨!就是想要告訴你，你所做的一切很有創(chuàng)造力，我真的十分激動(dòng)看到公司在你的努力下一路前行。”(如果你需要夸獎(jiǎng)別人的點(diǎn)子，請查看如何在職場表示感謝)
See, it's not that hard or time-consuming to be nicer at work. But, in case you need more convincing, know that research has found that being nice to your colleagues reaps more benefits than you may think.
瞧，在工作中更有親和力并不是什么花費(fèi)時(shí)間的難事。不過，為了讓你更加相信，科學(xué)研究已經(jīng)發(fā)現(xiàn)善待同事，收獲超過你的想象。
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