Body language is extremely important when it comes to making good first impressions. It's always helpful to know what body cues show you in a positive light, especially during interviews or networking when you're meeting someone for the first time. It can make a difference and even make you more likeable. Keep these tips in mind when you're interacting with another person:
如果你想要?jiǎng)?chuàng)造良好的第一印象，肢體語(yǔ)言的作用極為重要。如果你能知道哪些肢體上的細(xì)節(jié)能給你帶來(lái)正面形象，那將會(huì)對(duì)你有很大的幫助。特別是參加面試時(shí)或是你第一次會(huì)見(jiàn)某人時(shí)，一些肢體語(yǔ)言能讓你更受對(duì)方的青睞。在你和別人交流時(shí)記住以下這些小竅門(mén)吧。
Smile slowly. If you're too quick to come to a smile or drop one, your expression may not look genuine. Real smiles happen gradually, but remember not to do it too slowly because it can also look creepy. Do your best to mimic a natural smile by practicing in the mirror.
慢慢地微笑。如果你突然微笑或者突然不笑，你的表情看起來(lái)就會(huì)不那么自然。真正的微笑總是很慢的。不過(guò)也不要笑得太慢，那樣也會(huì)顯得很假。盡力在鏡子前練習(xí)一下自然的微笑吧。
Speak in a deeper voice. When you're nervous or excited, your voice may come out in a higher pitch. Take a deep breath and lower your pitch, because a deeper voice is considered to have more authority and confidence. In fact, even dogs respond better to deeper voices when you are trying to give them a command.
用較低的聲音說(shuō)話(huà)。如果你很緊張或是很興奮，你的聲音往往會(huì)變得很高。做個(gè)深呼吸降低你的聲音吧，因?yàn)檩^低的聲音會(huì)被認(rèn)為具有更多自主權(quán)和自信心。事實(shí)上，就連狗狗也會(huì)對(duì)更低的聲音更有反應(yīng)，當(dāng)你給它們下命令的時(shí)候。
Make eye contact. When talking to someone, making eye contact shows interest and also confidence. Don't go overboard and gaze without breaking eye contact, because that can make people feel uncomfortable. Spend the majority of the time making eye contact, but remember to briefly take breaks.
眼神交流。當(dāng)你和某人交談時(shí)，眼神交流能表現(xiàn)出你的興趣和自信。但也不要目不轉(zhuǎn)睛直勾勾地盯著看，那樣會(huì)讓別人感覺(jué)不適。用大部分時(shí)間作眼神交流，但也要記得偶爾放放松。
Have good posture. Sit or stand up straight and avoid slouching. Slouching can make you look less professional and can possibly make you look less confident and enthusiastic.
保持好姿勢(shì)。坐著和站著的時(shí)候要筆直，不要沒(méi)精打采。沒(méi)精打采的樣子會(huì)讓你顯得不專(zhuān)業(yè)，也許也會(huì)讓你顯得缺乏自信和熱情。
Lean. Move your body slightly forward toward the person you're talking to. This reflects interest. However, if you want to show that you're relaxed, lean back a little bit. Don't overdo the leaning or it may either look like you have no idea of what personal space is if you lean forward too much or make you look uninterested and uppity if you lean too far back.
身體微傾。讓你的身體向?qū)Ψ轿⑽⑶皟A，這反映了你的興趣。同時(shí)，如果你想要表現(xiàn)你很放松，就微微向后傾一些。不過(guò)不要傾斜得太過(guò)了，不然會(huì)讓你在前傾時(shí)顯得不尊重他人的私人空間，在后傾時(shí)又顯得不感興趣或者太自負(fù)。
Don't fidget. Don't fiddle with your hands or shake your leg because that can portray nervousness or restlessness. Relax and slow down your movements.
不要坐立不安。不要一直動(dòng)你的手或是抖腳，那會(huì)表現(xiàn)出你的緊張。放松一點(diǎn)，放慢動(dòng)作。
Stay uncrossed. Keep your hands and legs uncrossed because that can make you seem cold and distant. If you're not crossing your arms, you'll look more open and less guarded.
不要交叉手或腳。不要交叉你的手和腳，因?yàn)槟菢訒?huì)顯得你很冷，有距離感。如果你沒(méi)有兩手交叉，你就會(huì)顯得更開(kāi)放，并且不那么具有防范性。
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